May 12, 2014

Mindful Mondays

It's important to set aside 'quiet' time for yourself each and everyday, where you are free from distractions. I remember when I was younger this was something that we were often reminded of in a classroom. This was something well-enforced throughout elementary school, and when approaching middle school became lessons taught on "coping" mechanisms to help moderate the stress of everyday life.

Looking back I couldn't have ever fathomed the technology that we have today, and how far it would inhibit the human evolution and our interactions with others. I often have "old moments", even at such a young age, where I realize that although technology is a huge part of our lives, it adds the the already monotonous stressors that preexist without said distraction.

Why is this all important? Despite the fact that many of us find down time throughout our day, we tend to abuse it, and therefore ourselves. Think of your body as the same iphone that is probably glued to your hands all day. What happens when the storage space becomes limited or the technology becomes more advanced? It slows down, right? You're body isn't much different in the sense that in order to feel 'new' again, it needs to have enforced time free of any demands.

Today, I challenge you to allow yourself just ten minutes of "mind space."
Keep these things in mind before getting started. I am sure that you'll find it a challenge the first few days, beyond that you might just find yourself looking forward to the much needed "me" time:

Find a spot that won't distract you. A few places I would love to offer as suggestions:
A park in the neighborhood. The beach. The roof-deck. The quad on campus.The library, even.
You would be surprised at how relaxing the Library can be when you bring no ulterior agenda!
Put away any and all distractions. 
This includes any and all technology: no TV, cell phones, radios, iPads etc.
Take a minute. Close your eyes, breathe in deeply and just let out a sigh, as though it were for relief.
Focus on your breathing at first.
From there start bringing more awareness to thoughts that might be coming to the front of your mind.
Bring awareness to these thoughts or feelings. Recognize them. Address them.
Once you have addressed these thoughts, any ill feelings, anxiety even, should be absolved, if not greatly reduced.
Relax.When you've come to a place where you feel like a weight has been lifted, continue about your day.
Oh and congratulations, that right there is the power of meditation and relaxation!



May 1, 2014

When It Rains, It's A Storm

I walked into my class today happy as always to be greeted by the smiling young minds of my 11th grade class. As usual we spent the last five minutes of class on the topic of life. One of my students pointed out that she has a hard time staying positive because she feels like "bad things always happen to [me]." (Me meaning her).

I began to explain to her that while life can get hectic, there's always something in the thick of it all that keeps us grounded. In  light of the topic, I decided it would be a nice idea to post a few pointers about staying positive when the tough gets going.

Make A List
Take a moment to jot down all the things that make you happy. They can be silly things. One thing to keep in mind, make it a point to write down non-conditional 'things' that make you happy. In other words, there could be a hell storm outside and what ever it is could/would still make you happy.


Keep Things In Perspective
While you might be having a tough day, week or even month, remind yourself that your way of thinking has a lot to do with how you're feeling. "Mind over matter" is a much more powerful action than it is a saying. I strongly suggest reading The Secret, by Rhonda Byrne. It's a fantastic reference on how to expand your thinking.

Words of Affirmation
I love keeping an affirmation book on my iPhone using the Kindle App . On days that might have one too many things packed into a 24-hour period, or just a day that isn't going right-- it helps me reinforce perspective. I love Reflections In The Light, by by Shakti Gawain and Trusting God, by Joyce Meyer .